Before we get started I want to go over a few things with you. Important things that will not only help you use this site for your advantage but also allow you to get the very best results in the least amount of time. So spend a few minutes reading this page. It is not too long and it will be well worth your time to read it through.
Most of you reading this page have something in your life that you either want to change, add or make better. It might be something major to address a real flaw or problem or it might be something very minor that you just want to learn or even tweak a bit. It really doesn't matter at this point what it is, as we are all going to use the same approach.
You have to understand that the information on these pages, while very good and very helpful, is not going to make changes in your life just by reading it. The bottom line is that if you want something in your life to change, you have to change something to allow that to happen. Without you changing anything on youor own you are relaying on fate or the actions of others and that is not the best way to go through life.
In order to change most people either are forced to change or want to change in order for change to happen. Some people will resist forced change because they don't want to change for whatever reasons they might have. Because of this the best way to change anything is because you WANT to. This is usually best accomplished by identifying some positive or enjoyable results of making a particular change.
For example, let's say you want to get a promotion because the higher salary will enable you to get a larger house or better car or enable you to take better or longer vacations. If you want to lose weight you might focus on the health benefits or being able to do new things you couldn't be or just looking better for your chidren's wedding or whatever reason you might have. The reasons aren't important. The important thing is that you understand that something good is going to come from your efforts.
Usually people will not change something because someone else wants them to change. After we escape childhood the authority over us by others becomes smaller and smaller. So don't think that you can force change upon others no more than they can force it upon you.
The best way to use this site is to find something you wish to change or make better and then read the materials under that particular subject. Don't rush through them but instead go through them slowly and take the time to think about how they can be applied in your particular situation. Make everything as relevant as possible. Take a generic or high level concept and make it youor own. The more relevant and real you can make it the stronger you will become motivated to make that change.
Some of the information might not apply to you and that is perfectly fine. Very few of us will need everything on this site. So feel free to pick and choose your way through the subjects on this website. My suggestion is to try and tackle the changes that will give you the most impact first and then move on to the others when you are ready.
One more thing about time and rushing through things. The best way to make change last is to take your time and work on one thing at a time until it becomes a habit. By that I mean it becomes something that you do without thinking. You just do it. No effort or thught is required. It just happens. When you reach that point you can move on to something new. So unless a particular situation or life event demands massive action right now, take your time and concentrate on the quality of your results and not just on how long it took you to achieve them.
So get started and determine what you want to do and why and then get started. Read the appropriate information, check out the books we have if you need something further or more in-depth and tackle your objectives. Always remember that if you change nothing, nothing will change.